I kept looking at my situation and the things that I cant control and thinking I’m stuck.

“I kept looking at my situation and the things that I cant control and thinking I’m stuck. Nothing I can do.
Well then what’s the point of having dreams??”

I used to believe this.

I think so many people believe this on some level.

And yeah maybe we say we don’t, but there’s always an area of our life that we’re holding ourselves back in… an area that we don’t think we can control… An area where maybe we failed before or our body has failed us or are partner has failed us or a parent of failed us…

And we want so desperately to believe and to move into what we know is truly possible for us…
But because the stuff is so ingrained in us… We do get stuck. We do need help. We do need someone who’s been there and done it to show us that it’s possible…

I used to live my life trying not to trigger people because I was triggered.

  • Hot women triggered me.
  • Great bodies and abs triggered me.
  • Happy marriages triggered me.
  • Money triggered me.
  • Fuck a lot of shit triggered me!

And then I just started being me and stop trying to hide.

And that’s when I got the body the business the relationship all the things… But to do that I had to get to the point where I was going to claim responsibility and ownership of everything that happened in my life whether it was my fault or not.
Because when you stop with the excuses or the reasons or the story…

And you decide that you were going to do whatever it takes for as long as it takes to get what you want… Things change.

And yes you still have to break the pattern of pushing and forcing things the way that you want them and learn how to come from heart and step into your power (guys this is where it gets easy).
Until then it doesn’t matter how hard you work or how much you push or how much time effort and energy you throw into your business or whatever… It never is going to work!

The energy you need comes from you connecting to your soul and heart.

You have to work on the spiritual plane of life. Your body can only go so far. If you want what you say you want you have to decide that you are going to take ownership and control of your life and learn how to shift into this connection to your heart and soul!

Then… AND ONLY THEN… Will you get what you want… And what I mean by that is you can have all the things and still not have what you want… This is why people have great success, money, love an end up committing suicide.
Or in depression.
Or living with chronic anxiety.
And maybe you know all this… On the surface level.

But you know that you’re still searching, that there’s still an emptiness inside of you, that in all the things that you have it’s still not hitting the spot.
And if you feel numb…
And if you feel this urgency to hurry up with your life…
If you feel like you have to pack it all in and stay busy… If you feel like you’re running yourself down…

If you feel like you’re a happy person living an unhappy life…
All these are signs that you’re never going to be happy on the path that you’re on.
All these are signs that you are missing the connection with your heart and soul.
And guys this is why I bought that one-way ticket to Spain 10 years ago.
It wasn’t about running away It was about finding myself.
And yes I know that I didn’t have to do that on paper… But I had to travel because traveling is how I connect my soul. And that’s what I needed at the time.
So maybe for you, it’s leaving a career or leaving a relationship or moving to another state… Or maybe it’s about just connecting to yourself right where you are. But in the end, it’s about saying yes to your desires.

All of your desires.
Your desires were given to you for a reason.
Your desires are safe.
And right now if you’re not living the life that you’ve dreamed of…
If you’re not fully doing and stepping into your purpose…
If you are not making the kind of money that you know you could be making in your business…
If you’re not feeling connected to your heart and your soul every single day so that you are springing out of the bed in the morning with excitement…
If you are not with your soul connection and in the relationship of your dreams…
If you are not happy with your body…
If you are reading this and thinking that you need to figure out what’s wrong so you can tell me what’s wrong because you have no idea what’s wrong…

I get it.

You don’t have to figure it out.
You just have to know that you want your life to be fucking amazing…
That you want to feel like you’re so in love with yourself and the world around you…
That you want to feel tears of joy coming down your face… Because you’re lying next to your lover… And you once that was impossible… (I did this Wednesday with my future husband)…

I know it feels like your life… The one you want is so far away… I know it feels like you have no idea how to make it happen…

I know it feels so painful for you to live the life you’re living every single day not having what you truly want…

And I know that if my message resonates with you that I can help you.

If you want to jump on a call with me to see how we can work together over the next 4 months and what your life can be like… click on the link and schedule a call with me and fill out the questions on the second page.
Your life is going to be so fucking amazing!
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