You end a bad relationship and then IN THE NEXT relationship you overcorrect by finding someone safe. THIS doesn’t work. 

You end a bad relationship and then IN THE NEXT relationship you overcorrect by finding someone safe. THIS doesn’t work. 

You WILL end up with the same problem. 

You know why? 

Because you decided out of fear… 

And maybe you won’t have that exact problem, but you will feel neglected, alone and abandoned.

You will feel like you can’t do enough and feel unappreciated.

Cos the problems FOLLOW YOU.

You cannot solve your problem by ending the relationship. 

You also cannot solve your problem by buying a one-way ticket to Spain. 

Yeah, everyone looked at me when I did that and called me a runner but that’s NO DIFFERENT than the way that’s acceptable to society, break up, divorce, move on… 

Running is running.

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But what I DID do, was take time for myself, take time to be alone and figure out who I was and what I wanted.

And my path was different because it was supposed to be different.

And now… now that I’m with my Future Husband… I get it. I get why my path was so windy… because I needed to be able to tell you…

That you don’t’ have to take 20 years to figure it out…

That you don’t have to settle…

That you don’t have to be in a relationship you are unhappy in…

And that when you do the work… the REAL work… 

It happens… In a moment… it happens…

I wrote one line in my journal on May 31st. 

I manifested my future husband.

We are planning our lives together.

 

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