We keep putting off SEX -Nichole Carlson

We keep putting off SEX…

Do you know why you are stuck in your problems?
You are bored.
Do you know why you can’t seem to get out of that relationship?
You are bored.
Do you know why you keep procrastinating on what you need to do to take care of your business, to take care of your health, to take care of yourself?

NOTHING IS GOING TO MOTIVATE YOU UNLESS YOU ARE EXCITED.

 

Life is NOT about achieving.

Life is about LIVING, FEELING, TOUCHING, BEING….

 

We are chock holding our money, our businesses, our relationships… because we are NOT living.

 

We keep putting off SEX…
RELATIONSHIPS…
VACATIONS…
Because we are so fucking consumed with ‘making it’

And if and when we EVER DO ‘make it’ (because what does making it really mean? no one knows)…
Then we end up burnt out,

dried out from not having sex for decades,

and resenting the world for somehow telling us that once we’ve made it, we’ll be happy…

and we are pissed because we will feel like the world lied to us.

 

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You just get to a point where you wonder, “Why the fuck am I doing this? It’s not even worth it.”

 

And then you buy a one-way ticket to Spain. (See my Bio if this confuses you.)

 

If you are not doing THE THING your soul want,
If you are not doing THE WORK that feeds your soul,
If you are not living in a way that feeds your soul,
Nothing is really going to work for you.
Even if you ‘get to the top’ and ‘get all-the-things’ -eh – won’t matter – you won’t even fucking care.

 

It took me walking away from the perfect white-picket-life making $200k a year to be homeless before it flipped a switch in me…
Life is about living.

The problem is – WE DON’T KNOW HOW TO CREATE A BUSINESS, A RELATIONSHIP OR A LIFE WE LOVE –
That’s been beaten out of us.

And so we just do whatever the person in front of us is doing.
Blah.
Boring.

PS. It’s time to Flip the Switch. Stop living this ZOMBIE life.

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You can have the relationship you so desperately want, but keep telling yourself you ‘only need’ this tiny thing. You don’t have to short change yourself and wherever you are in your relationship – THERE IS A WAY TO START GETTING WHAT YOU WANT. NOW.

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