The Two Biggest Success Blocks I’ve Seen with Myself and My Clients

Are you turned Off?
You are going to disregard what I’m about to say because you probably already ‘know’ it…
But one of the biggest success blocks I have seen over and over again is not being happy. 

But the thing is, they don’t even know they aren’t happy (well, on some level they do)
But the biggest success block is WHY they don’t know they are unhappy - they are turned OFF. 

Here’s what I mean - When I started going to rehab I was in so much pain that I shut it all down mentally. I couldn’t tell where the pain was. I couldn’t tell when it happened. I couldn’t tell if it was sharp, dull or radiating.
Because I SHUT THAT SHIT DOWN.
I was just numb to it, which is maaaayyyybe why it got so bad (sarcasm) 

But that’s what we DO. 

In relationships
We get into relationships that are wrong for us.
Or we are in relationships and things start to unravel...
We end up fighting and avoiding each other. (Of course, we HAVE to work so much more because you are sabotaging work now so you can avoid being at home.)
We stop having sex - and we even shut down our desire for it altogether
And then we wonder where the passion is 

At work
We don’t charge the prices we should because we question ourselves and the value we give
We take on clients we don’t want to because we need the money (Stop this!)
We hire staff we know we shouldn’t because we don’t trust our own judgement
We are constantly putting out fires
We have inconsistent cash flow
And we don’t pay ourselves 

NOTE: just because you LOVE your work, does NOT mean you are happy. You cannot cut off the other parts of your life and SUSTAIN happiness with your work. 

With our friends and family
We give them money (Stop this!)
We aren’t honest about how we feel
We don’t say no when we need to
And with all of that… we STILL aren’t getting what we want and we are too busy to even figure it out.
So we shut ourselves down.
We turn off.
It’s too painful. 

But then we end up realizing one day that we are happy people, but living in unhappy lives, businesses, and marriages. 

And we wonder, “What happened to the passion and excitement?” 

It's time to Flip the Switch - ON 

-Nichole  

Ps. I have a free 5-day happiness video series - "Why You Are Still Struggling Even Though You Are Achieving So Much" 

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For a long time, Nichole was following the American Dream. She had the house, the husband, the car, and the career - but she was miserable.
But she stayed for 12 years. It wasn’t until after her mom passed away at only 47 that she realized life was short. She got a divorce and traveled for the next 10 years, and even got to the point where she was homeless and eating out of dumpsters. 
She came back, rebuilt her life on her terms. 

Nichole works with 6 and 7 figure earners who are successful, yet struggling with stress, anxiety and overwhelm and inside they feel like they are barely holding it together. Nichole flips a switch inside of them to help them break through in business, bring back the passion in their relationships, and gives them the energy to be able to keep going instead of burning out.

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