We don't feel safe. - Nichole Carlson

How to stop worrying if you are going to make it, even after a breakup

When my ex-boyfriend left me last year on a one-way ticket out of the country (uhhh… sound familiar?)

I was like… but… who is going to take care of me?

But for real though.

And then I realized.

Oh.

Me.  

*pout*

 

I have spent decades neglecting myself, my dreams and my desires and when I realized that I had to take on a whole new level of self-love… well…

I took on a whole new level of self-love.

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Y’all have heard me talk about crushing it in my business, with my bodybuilding comp, and all the things…

 

But there’s always been an area of my life that I’ve neglected and I decided to start taking care of myself.

 

I went to a sex shop.

I got a necklace.

Battery powered.

Yes, I wear it.

Some of you have seen it but don’t know it.

 

I used to allow men in my life to neglect me, but that really started with me neglecting myself.

 

Now I walk away from the men who don’t treat me right because I know how to treat myself.

 

AGAIN the message is you GET TO HAVE YOUR DESIRES.

And when you say no to yourself – with even one desire, you are saying to other desires.

 

This stuff impacts your business, the clients you are or are not attracting, the money you are or are not attracting… it all comes down to how much you value yourself.

So what do you want?

And where are you denying yourself?

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