Heyyyyy… Let’s talk. Heart to heart because I know what you are going through and I know you think it’s going to get better…
But that’s not how it works and somewhere deep inside you, you know it’s the truth.
You are in the same relationship cycle you’ve been in for a while and it keeps repeating, doesn’t it?
And… it’s actually going to get worse…
And maybe what’s going on in the relationship in tolerable – or you’ve gotten used to it, but here’s what’s really happened…
You have shut down emotionally so you are able to stay in the relationship and force yourself to make it work.
But there is a danger in doing that…
Because when you do that – it actually does 2 things –
1 it creates an emotional barrier between the two of you and blocks you from a soul connection and true intimacy
2 it shuts down the emotions of passion, excitement, and motivation – which means… IT WIL KILL YOUR DESIRE FOR MONEY and ultimately impact your finances, your business, your clients and your self-worth
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So what does that look like? It looks like you…
not being able to focus in your business
procrastinating…
losing motivation…
but working ALL OF THE TIME…
losing money, but not really sure why or where it’s going…
not having physical energy…
not being able to sleep… staying up worried about money… worried about the relationship…
not being able to get up in the morning…
your coffee suddenly seems like it’s decaf… wtf…
you feel drained…
you think it’s a sleeping problem or a procrastination problem…
You start sabotaging your diet and not going to the gym…
You feel frustrated at everything and find yourself getting angry when you aren’t really an angry person (which you blame on not sleeping, but that’s not the REAL problem)
Ok, so YES, you ‘can’ keep doing this – mostly because you’ve shut down your emotions and you are just going on autopilot, but is it worth it?
You feel dead inside.
Emotionally drained.
And you know… this is not the life you were meant to be living.
I know it seems like you have 2 choices that both don’t seem like choices – stay and put up with it or leave and start all over…
You are right. Those aren’t choices. Those suck. And they feel defeating.
You can fix the problem. You can work through what’s going on in the relationship and change the dynamics of the relationship, but…
you need to know how to do it.
I left my marriage thinking it was my only option, but then kept picking ‘safe’ men who wouldn’t abandon me – but they always did. It took me 4 relationships and 20 years to figure this out…
20 years to Flip the Switch.
But once I did, I manifested my future husband with one line in my journal.
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