He fulfills my sexual fantasy

Nichole Carlson, Flip the Switch

He fulfills my sexual fantasy

In my 20’s I married a man I didn’t trust.

He had cheated on me.

I never felt safe to be seen.

In fact, I remember one incident where I walked in front of him naked and he says to me, “We’ve really gained a lot of weight over the past few weeks.”

What?

What was that?

Fast forward to now when I am creating money from my soul – sharing my story and being vulnerable and ‘seen’…

I realized that not feeling safe to be seen in my most intimate relationship has kept me from feeling safe to be seen in the world and with money.

And men.

It’s taken a long time for me to allow my self to trust again – people in general, friends, family, the world.

And I’ve done a lot of work to be able to come to a space where I am paid to be me and I get paid to teach others to be themselves.

Nichole Carlson, Flip the Switch

I’ve also done a lot of work to feel safe to be seen in my relationship.

Being fully seen, loved and accepted in my most intimate relationship is a sexual fantasy of mine – which my future husband is fulfilling for me.

And being able to be seen in the world for who I am (and getting paid for it!) has been a dream of mine.

If you can’t feel safe to be seen in your intimate relationship how do you think this is playing out in your ability to feel safe and seen in your business?

 

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