Recently I woke up to the idea that the things that were once working for me have stopped working for me. Actually, it’s been quite a while since these things have worked for me and I’ve gotten to the point where I am making excuses and settling – just because I never checked in to make sure everything was still a ‘Fuck Yes’ for me.
Has that ever happeneed to you?
Or maybe you are feeling it right now.
Your life was meant to be a FUCK YES!
To make that happen –
You must first decide how you want to feel each day… then decide what you want your lifestyle to be like… THEN ask what you want to do in your business.
Most people ask what they can do that will be the most successful or make the most money… and then they are miserable.
That is what I did in my previous businesses and with my career as a software engineer. MY LIFE FUCKING SUCKED.
I finally had so much anxiety I moved out of software engineering and started trying to do fitness coaching. That helped but I wasn’t supposed to be fitness coaching. I figured out that I was supposed to be helping women grow their online businesses so they can travel/vacation/spend time with those they love.
If your intuition is telling you to do something else and it feels scary…. YOU MUST DO IT.
Because here’s why….
Anxiety comes in and tells you that you aren’t living in alignment.
Your anxiety gets worse.
You medicate… through bad food, drinking, drugs like adderall(I don’t really know any other drugs, but I took adderall).
You escape through overworking, overeating, TV, the gym(anything can be bad if used the wrong way), etc…
You get headaches, food allergies, ulcers, cancer, etc…. (I was fortunate JUST to have pain in my ass… I literally could not sit in a chair for 8 months. Not fun.)
Anxiety fucking sucks. But anxiety is just a message. It’s telling you to FOLLOW YOUR HEART. FOLLOW YOUR INTUITION.
Yeah it’s scary. Anxiety is so common. It’s almost accepted. But… ANXIETY is a choice. You are choosing not to follow your heart. You are choosing not to follow your intuition.
And I know it’s hard.
It’s hard to walk away from a life. It’s hard to walk away from a love(yes, when I walked away from my marriage I still loved him). It’s hard to quit that job.
It’s hard to start that business… All because of fear.
What if I can’t make it?
What if I’m not good enough?
What if I can’t?
What if I’m judged?
I know. Been there.
But maybe I was lucky. Maybe, being a military brat taught me how to accept ending something and starting over.
Still… it isn’t easy for me. I still resist. Anxiety still taps me on the shoulder… and I drag my feet.
Anxiety is a message.
Love yourself and go.
Do THAT thing.
I’m still learning. I’ve had 40 years of stuffing my intuition down. 40 years of not following my heart. 40 years of doing what I was told.
It’s fine if your heart agrees, but mine did not.
I was born for something else. I was born to be different. I was born with a message to share. And even my stubbornness was not going to stop that message from coming out into the world. (I was so stubborn, omg – maybe still am)
As I sit here… I am thinking of you.
I don’t know where you are in your journey.
I don’t know how long you’ve been resisting your life calling.
I don’t know how painful it has been for you.
I don’t know if you are ready to do that thing.
I don’t know if you are just so sick and tired of not being who you want/need to be.
But I love you. I believe in you. I want the best for you.
You already KNOW I coach women to grow their cash flow for travel, but not about the money you can make or the travel.
It’s about you.
It’s about what you were called to do (even if you don’t know exactly what that is right now.)
It’s about supporting you.
If this is speaking to you, let’s get on the phone and talk about it.
Right now I have 2 openings for 1-1 coaching to grow your cash flow for travel….
And even if you are unsure about what you want, if this message has spoken to you (if you are this far down in the post) let’s still get on the phone because we are meant to talk about whatever is going on in your life. Email me back by replying to this message.
Your life was meant to be a FUCK YES!