Crash-and-burn. Self-sabotage

How it’s FELT in my life, business, relationship and fitness since my CRASH-AND-BURN SELF-SABOTAGE in October…

October my ex and I had just gotten back from Germany and I was f’n miserable…
NOTHING was working so I did what we all do, self-sabotaged lie a BOSS.

But then the coach in me was like….”Wait a minute! I know what this is! I’m sabotaging because I’m unhappy. OK. DONE. Let’s fix this.” [Turning point]

So I raised the standard in EVERY area of my life because obviously, I wasn’t happy at this low-ass standard and doubled-down.

And this is what it felt like…

FEAR…
STRESS…
CONFIDENCE TO CHANGE IT…

DECIDING.

INVESTMENT…
TRUST...
INVESTMENT…
INVESTMENT…
INVESTMENT…
INVESTMENT…
INVESTMENT…
INVESTMENT…
INVESTMENT…
INVESTMENT…
INVESTMENT...
INVESTMENT…
TRUST…
TRUST…
TRUST...

INNER WORK...
NO RESULTS…

TRUST…

INNER WORK...
NO RESULTS…

TRUST…

INNER WORK...
NO RESULTS…

TRUST…
KEEP GOING…

INNER WORK...
NO RESULTS…

TRUST…

INNER WORK...
NO RESULTS…

TRUST…

INNER WORK...
NO RESULTS…

TRUST…
KEEP GOING…

THOUGHT: OMG I’M STILL NOT THERE, FUCK I NEEEEEEED A WIN…. PLEASE!

INNER WORK...
NO RESULTS…

TRUST…

INNER WORK...
NO RESULTS…

TRUST…

INNER WORK...
NO RESULTS…

TRUST…
KEEP GOING…

INNER WORK...
NO RESULTS…

TRUST…

INNER WORK...
NO RESULTS…

TRUST…

INNER WORK...
NO RESULTS…

TRUST…
KEEP GOING…

INNER WORK...
NO RESULTS…

TRUST…

INNER WORK...
NO RESULTS…

TRUST…

INNER WORK...
NO RESULTS…

TRUST…
KEEP GOING…

THOUGHT: FUCK!!!!! STILL NOT THERE…. FUCK… I’M EXHAUSTED…. NEED TO CHANGE MY MINDSET…. DOUBLE DOWN…. I JUST NEED A WIN….

INNER WORK...
NO RESULTS…

TRUST…

INNER WORK...
NO RESULTS…

TRUST…

INNER WORK...
NO RESULTS…

TRUST…
KEEP GOING…

INNER WORK...
NO RESULTS…

TRUST…

INNER WORK...
NO RESULTS…

TRUST…

INNER WORK...
NO RESULTS…

TRUST…
KEEP GOING…

….

CLICK. CLICK. CLICK. CLICK. 

FINALLY!

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Success isn’t about a financial number or anything that most people would measure… Success for me is KNOWING I’m on point (in my CALLING) and even though I’m still working toward my goals, I’m enjoying the process and I know I’ve already succeeded because I see that I’m making progress.

And though I’ve always been making progress, I know I am on point (in my calling) because I see the gears finally catching. 

Make sense? I knew when I hired the coaches in January I was on point with doing that, but I needed to keep adjusting and growing until I saw the gears catch, then I could go full speed. 

So a lot of times, it’s frustrating to go through the adjustment period because we just want to see it working. THIS IS WHY YOU GET SUPPORT. I WOULD HAVE GONE MAD WITHOUT MY COACHES AND BIZ SISTERS (love you Ladies!). IF YOU ARE DOING THIS ALONE, YOU KNOWWWWW! 

So I kept believing. Kept going. When things didn’t work, or I felt like I needed to push more, I took that next step (which was usually another coach). 

BUT THE RESPONSIBILITY WAS MINE. 

I NEEDED TO TAKE OWNERSHIP.

I ‘worked’ very little. I DID THE INNER WORK AND KEPT THE VISION, MINDSET AND FOCUS, WHICH IS THE HARDEST THING WHEN YOUR OUTSIDE WORLD IS TELLING YOU THINGS AREN’T WORKING (yet).

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Most of the time we know we are on the wrong path. Once we know we are on the right path (doing what you are meant to be doing), you’ll be able to trust, invest, believe, keep going... even when the outside world isn't reflecting your vision.... yet 

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I know you need support. PM me.

For a long time, Nichole was following the American Dream. She had the house, the husband, the car, and the career – but she was miserable.
But she stayed for 12 years. It wasn’t until after her mom passed away at only 47 that she realized life was short. She got a divorce and traveled for the next 10 years, and even got to the point where she was homeless and eating out of dumpsters.
She came back, rebuilt her life on her terms.

Nichole works with 6 and 7 figure earners who are successful, yet struggling with stress, anxiety and overwhelm and inside they feel like they are barely holding it together. Nichole flips a switch inside of them to help them break through in business, bring back the passion in their relationships, and gives them energy to be able to keep going instead of burning out

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