Are you waiting until you have your shit together?

Are you waiting until you have your shit together -Nichole Carlson

Last year I slayed! I had enough of my bullshit in my business, in my relationship and with my body – ok, well maybe my body was pretty legit but I still wanted to get to the next level.

I had just gotten out of my relationship with my ex and decided I was going to work out my relationship issues that kept following me.

I did a total overhaul on my business because I was ALL-IN.

And I trained for 9 months for my bodybuilding competition and won first, first and third.

I worked through my shit! And it was the most productive and rewarding years I have ever had! But the thing is… deep inside, I STILL knew I was holding back. I STILL knew that I wasn’t stepping fulling into who I was meant to be.

I kept doubting…

I kept asking if I would be able to handle it…

I kept NOT doing the work – while still doing the work. It IS a thing. You can be serving and doing all-the-things… but still not fully owning who you are meant to be.

I think we all kind of do that. We KNOW we ‘should’ be so much further along. We have this vision or at least an idea that we aren’t living out our purpose.

And while I believe that we are exactly where we need to be at this very moment and everything we have done was right and has led us to this point, I ALSO believe that we have a choice RIGHT NOW to step into who we are meant to be.

There is a version of you… right now… who has the business…the relationship… the life…

There is a version of you who is fully living out your purpose.

There is a version of you who is NOT WAITING UNTIL THINGS GET BETTER before you move forward.

There is a version of you who is DOING the work that actually is THE WORK.

💭The question isn’t – What’s wrong with you and why aren’t you doing the work?

You already know why…

➡️ It’s the relationship problem…

➡️ It’s the money

➡️ Fear…

➡️ Kids…

➡️ Health…

All the things… But you have actually been in this problem for a while and you keep using it as the reason you aren’t showing up in your business.😞

And yes, it is a valid problem and yes, it is taking up your time, money and energy… but you keep giving it all your focus… and it’s consuming you. 😩

📌 But aren’t you sick & tired of putting off your calling?

📌 Aren’t you sick & tired of holding off the things you want & deserve until after you do this & that?

📌 Aren’t you tired of waiting for you to do the things you know you should have done yesterday?

📌 Aren’t you kind of … embarrassed?

And maybe that’s why you are hiding now.

You’re almost at the point where… oh yeah… you feel out of integrity of who you KNOW you are.

And that nervous anxious feeling? ☹️

👉 Yeah, you know the one – the one you used to get way back when – for me it was when I was married to a man I didn’t trust & working in a career that was sucking the soul out of me.

👉 That feeling – it comes back. But this time it’s telling you to wake up.

👉 You should know better.

👉 You know you were born for more.

👉 You know you didn’t go through everything just to survive it and start life over – you went through everything to become THIS person – well NOT SO MUCH because you are hiding – – but the person in your vision – the person you are claiming to be -the person with a mission, a calling, a desire to change the world…

That vision was given to you – and ONLY you. There is something you were born to do.

And everything in your life has led you to this very moment.

And you’re – hiding?!

WTF. Really?

This is how you are behaving?

Because… you… don’t… have your shit together? Really? That’s the reason?

Well, let me just say – that’s not a thing.

Having your shit together is not a thing.

I’ve been at the point where I’ve had it all together – everything was ‘perfect’ – and it just made me burn it all down and leave the country on a one-way ticket. Perfect ain’t pretty. And perfect will not keep you warm and night and will certainly not get you off.

So… the next level version of you – the one with the vision… Are you going to step up? And do you REALLY want this life? ❤️ Because just because you have a VISION and a CALLING does NOT mean you will actually live it.


It’s Time to Flip the Switch,


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