If you aren’t happy in your relationship – I mean freaking excited – it WILL impact your business
I did exactly what I tell you NOT to do. I put my relationship on the back burner. I was so caught up in my career and then in trying to build my business, that I put my relationship last.
Well… to be really fair, no one tells you how to ‘do’ a relationship…
We kind of learn it from our parents or ‘parental figures’ around us as we grow up…
BUT IT’S THE ONE THING WE ARE SUPPOSED TO HAVE FOR LIFE… AND HOW IT ‘WORKS’ IS STILL A SECRET.
(well, people have started to talk about it now, but if you are 40ish like me… you’ve already been ‘winging it’ for a while)
I mean we get training for our careers and most of us don’t even follow our degrees.
BUT… back to my fuck up…
Because it wasn’t ONLY that I put my relationship last…
I got into a marriage with a man I didn’t trust…
I didn’t heal…
I suppressed myself and my needs…
I put myself last…
I shut down and didn’t talk about what was hurting me…
I acted like I was okay…
I told myself that I didn’t need ‘that much’…
I told myself ‘it wasn’t that bad’…
I was dealing with anxiety and depression…
And I stayed for 4 years AFTER I knew I had to go.
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The guilt was more than I could deal with. I didn’t feel good enough. I didn’t feel loved. I didn’t feel like it was possible for me to be loved, accepted and cherished.
And through all of that, the real issue was… I put myself on the backburner.
?I neglected myself. ?
?I allowed things that you don’t want someone you love to go through.
?I felt unloved. ?
?Unworthy.?
?Abandoned.?
?Not good enough.?
?Unattractive.?
Uhhhhgggg!
And then…
That pattern followed me into the next relationship and the next relationship until I figured out how to stop it and call in what I deserve…
Which came from learning how to have this relationship with myself.
Obviously, I am not a big self-love – world peace – flowy clothes – yoga guru…
?But when I could CLEARLY see that this pattern needed to be stopped (like an arch nemesis from a Marvel comic book)…??
And that my relationship problems were FUCKING UP my business
☠️And keeping MONEY from coming into my business…
☠️And FUCKING up my health by actually creating crippling pain in my body…
☠️And DRAINING my energy…
If my life was a movie, I was at the point in the movie where it looks like it couldn’t get any worse, and I was asking … “How am I going to get through this?”
TO BE CLEAR… I was LYING in the living room floor, with pain shooting through my body and TOTALLY UNABLE TO GET UP for 40 minutes.
I finally chose to love myself at that moment.
*Look, I don’t know where you are in your relationship, if you are thinking about leaving or if you are trying to make it work or if you are just trying to figure out the ‘right’ thing to do for you…Or if you are avoiding relationships all together…
Honestly, it doesn’t really matter.
Your relationship with yourself is what you need to be able to function
*in your business*
*In your relationship*
*with your health*
*to overcome health, tragedy, whatever comes up in your life*
Take care of you and the rest of your life starts to work.
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And if you want to talk about how you can have a passionate relationship – with the love, the trust and the intimacy,
And if you want to talk about how you can LOVE YOUR LIFE…
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