5 Shifts high performers make to crush it
and find fulfillment so they can have it all,
without burning out



How to Manifest An Emotionally Available Man Who is Ready to Commit


My mom’s death was life-changing for me

About 15 years ago I was living in Vegas with my ex-husband when I got a call.
My mom, only 47 said she had cancer.
My dad had already left years ago so it was just her.
We moved back to Texas to be with her

It was within a week of moving back, that I decided I was DONE DONE with my marriage.
I remember the exact moment when I snapped.
The exact night.
But, of course, I waited (too scared to be on my own and too scared of giving up the ‘good’ in the relationship)

My mom got sicker.
My (ex)husband and I bought a house.
And I prepared.
I hid money.
I started working on a degree in a career that would make a lot of money.

And I listened to my mom talk about…
How she just wanted to drive out to the Grand Canyon with her Australian Shepherd, Foster and look over the canyon at sunrise.
How she just wanted to take that last trip to Disney world with her girlfriends.
And… finally, where we were supposed to bury her
And how she couldn’t wait to go home and be with God.
She didn’t make it to 48.

And I realized how short life really was.
You don’t always ‘get’ that chance to go to the Grand Canyon
We don’t ‘get’ the chance to spend that one last moment
And for 4 years…
I wrestled with leaving my marriage.
I knew I was done, but was I making a mistake?
Was I going to regret it?
Was it worth giving up ‘the good things I did have’?

But I was living the same day over and over again.
I felt dead inside.
I had anxiety attacks.
I felt trapped in a loveless relationship that I ‘should have been grateful for’
And every birthday was a reminder that I was alone, living a life I hated, in a relationship I wasn’t happy in.
And life was short…
And every birthday... I balled my eyes out.

Until I left in 2008.
I went to Peru for 6 weeks…
Climbed up Machu Picchu...
I snowboarded down sand dunes
I rode ATVs in the desert,
I went to the biggest salt flats in the world.
I shopped the small markets of Spanish speaking towns
Flew to Spain on a one-way ticket.
I met random people.
Slept on strangers floors, couches, and air mats
I booked flights to the wrong country and was very surprised when I got to the airport
I invited myself over to strangers' houses and had.. Easter with an Italian family (only 2 of them spoke English)
I hitchhiked around England and Ireland.
I was homeless and ate out of dumpsters.
I ate cherries walking by a random cherry tree
I borrowed a bike and biked all around The Netherlands
I moved to Hawaii once
I sailed across the Gulf Coast (I was actually crewing the boat) and almost died in a storm
I scuba-dived down the coast of Central America.
I slept on remote deserted islands
I’ve been through the temples of Cambodia
I’ve re-visited Germany where I grew up
I’ve driven all over the US.
And I’ve seen the sunrise over the Grand Canyon several times.

I’ve come back and started doing bodybuilding competitions
I signed up for improv,
Guitar lessons,
Swimming lessons,
Spanish lessons
Drum lessons,
Sailing lessons,
Acting classes,
Songwriting lessons

But not only did her death teach me to live,
It’s become my message.
It’s my mission.
I want you to know that you don’t have to settle in ANYTHING.
You don’t have to stay in a mediocre marriage, no matter how ‘good’ you have it
You don’t have to settle for anything
You get to CREATE the life you want.

You GET to make money doing what you love
You GET to be in a loving, soulmate, passionate relationship
You GET to have that healthy, energetic body.

Everything was pushing me to live.
Everything was pushing me to my calling.
Everything was leading me HERE.

So, for YOU, in all the planning and all the work you are doing…


How to Manifest An Emotionally Available Man Who is Ready to Commit

I'm what you call a You Can Have It All Coach. Yep. You read that correctly. I help high-performers and high-achievers like you switch the flip inside of you that will allow you to smash your upper limits and step into this powerful, unleashed leader that has always been inside of you.


No matter where you are, you aren’t going to be happy if you are neglecting yourself.

This means:

  • If you started your business for the money and the security instead of what your heart wanted

  • If you married someone you didn’t trust

  • If you aren’t taking care of your health

  • If you’ve lost the passion and intimacy in your relationship

  • If you aren’t fulfilled sexually

  • If you don’t have close friends who you trust and who inspire you

And it’s not to say that you need all of these things to make you happy. You don’t. But what you do need is to be taking care of yourself and listening to what your heart craves - that freedom, fun, and excitement.

You may have ‘everything’ but are you getting what you want? 

what if you could really

the business + the family + the money + the time + the health


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